To clarify

I just love how everyone has a solution for my life.
I am so sick of hearing the same old story: "Well you just need to get out of Kansas."
Not that I couldn't agree more, but up and leaving isn't going to cure anything. The fact that I don't have friends, the fact that I feel so unbearably bored with life, the fact that I would just love to be able to see, talk, and communicate with people close to me isn't going to change due to my location on Earth. Moving to a city where everything and everyone is foreign to me doesn't seem like the solution. Not only that, but while I make good money here, I still have financial responsibilities. I can't just up and leave. However, apparently people think I live a charmed life where everything is handed to me, a life in which I possess a never-ending supply of wealth.
...Here let me go pick some bills off of the money tree in my backyard.

I don't reach out to other's for sympathy, I quite frankly know I wouldn't get it. I just want someone to try to be a friend. Someone I can talk to and trust.
I'm so over the bar scene even though it seems everyone else's lives revolve around it. I don't miss waking up feeling like crap, passing out throwing my guts up, and spending ridiculous amounts of money on liquor which will be peed out the next morning. It seems pointless to me. I'm not saying I don't like to go out and drink. I still love going to martini bars and going to my favorite "hipster" spots but when it becomes an every weekend event, I get bored with it. Also, I find it rather obnoxious that the majority of people out here don't know how to have fun unless they're intoxicated. It only displays how narrow-minded people really are.

So maybe I'm all alone in this struggle. Maybe no one understands, cares, or desires to be a friend, a companion, someone close to me in this desolate life.
However, I find that hard to believe...